Your Attitudes Give Values to Your Efforts in Life

Be active, be reactive, and proactive!!
Yes, my dear, everything is in the title! This is the key behavior to see great improvement in our lives! Let me picture something to be even clearer my dear, Imagine someone in an office, going to work and leaving every day at the same time.  Just doing what they’re asked for, not even talking with their coworkers but just waiting for the end of the day, every day, and just doing this so they can retire eventually. This is a typical passive behavior my friend, and this doesn’t sound very exciting, does it?

Unfortunately, that’s what a lot of people do, thinking they can’t follow their dreams because it’s safer to have a steady job even if it doesn’t fulfill you. So they keep complaining, not realizing that you can find satisfaction and little victories even with a steady job! What’s the secret? Being active, reactive, and proactive!!

Now picture the same person, my dear, going to work and leaving every day at the same time, but instead of just doing what they’re told, they also suggest new ideas, offer their help for new plans, want to learn and develop more skills. They also talk to their coworkers, trying to know them and help them. They’re doing their best so every day when they wake up they feel good about going to work! It’s the same job though, what is only changing is the attitude. And that’s what I want you to remember, you always have to go ahead with projects, ideas, plans, etc.

What’s in there for you my friend? Satisfaction, self-confidence, but also trust from your coworkers, being more responsible, and then even more proud of what you do, and so on and so on! Such a positive cycle begets positive progress, be blessed.
Onyekachi M Ogbonnia

Our attitude decides our efforts blessings …. Onyekachi M Ogbonnia

Your Attitudes Give Values to Your Efforts in Life

Be active, be reactive, and proactive!!
Yes, my dear, everything is in the title! This is the key behavior to see great improvement in our lives! Let me picture something to be even clearer my dear, Imagine someone in an office, going to work and leaving every day at the same time.  Just doing what they’re asked for, not even talking with their coworkers but just waiting for the end of the day, every day, and just doing this so they can retire eventually. This is a typical passive behavior my friend, and this doesn’t sound very exciting, does it?

Unfortunately, that’s what a lot of people do, thinking they can’t follow their dreams because it’s safer to have a steady job even if it doesn’t fulfill you. So they keep complaining, not realizing that you can find satisfaction and little victories even with a steady job! What’s the secret? Being active, reactive, and proactive!!

Now picture the same person, my dear, going to work and leaving every day at the same time, but instead of just doing what they’re told, they also suggest new ideas, offer their help for new plans, want to learn and develop more skills. They also talk to their coworkers, trying to know them and help them. They’re doing their best so every day when they wake up they feel good about going to work! It’s the same job though, what is only changing is the attitude. And that’s what I want you to remember, you always have to go ahead with projects, ideas, plans, etc.

What’s in there for you my friend? Satisfaction, self-confidence, but also trust from your coworkers, being more responsible, and then even more proud of what you do, and so on and so on! Such a positive cycle begets positive progress, be blessed.
Onyekachi M Ogbonnia

Our attitude decides our efforts blessings …. Onyekachi M Ogbonnia

The Keys To A Better Love Lifestyle.

1. You have a role to play:

Things don’t happen for nothing, life wants to show you something, push you to action and allow you to test yourself.

The Universe wants to teach you to follow your instincts and do what feels right.

Be aware of your strengths and your ability to make the right choices and understand them.

Your body speaks, listen to it because it is your intuition that speaks.

2. Love can only blossom if you dare to BE YOURSELF:

often you adapt to the other person’s image of you. You adapt to the image that the other makes of you and avoid any form of conflict. As a result, you are no longer able to be in touch with the real you.

3. You can’t save others and change them :

when you focus on the other person’s difficulties, you have no time to think about your own difficulties. You fall into the trap of pride. It is a behavior that makes the other person dependent on you. The only thing you can do is to save yourself.

4. Take care of your relationship with others:

Never take things for granted. If you find a love that lasts, take care of that relationship regularly. Try to look and listen to each other carefully.

5. To love others, you must first love yourself:

love begins with kindness to yourself. Enjoy your own company and you won’t need the other to make you happy.

Stop picking up crumbs of love and give yourself what you really want.

6. Love is a true gift:

love is an energy, a life force that spreads within you. It is an emotion that is always available, so make the most of it.

7. Be an inspirational person:

behave the way you’d like to be treated. If you want the other person to give you something, start by showing them generosity. If you don’t want them to judge you, don’t judge them.

Onyekachi M Ogbonnia

Love flows within us to touch other lives… Onyekachi M Ogbonnia

Love Is A Divine Gift Part2

My friend, it is important today that you ask yourself these questions :
Do I love myself?
Am I becoming the person I want to be?
Am I basing my life more and more on love?
With these questions, you will be able to express what you want. Remember, you must genuinely first see the full value of yourself before you can see the full value of anyone else.

When you have a lot of love in you, being alone is no longer a problem because, in your heart, you find all the love you need.
You have the right to feel beautiful, you can honor your body and accept it as it is. You don’t need anyone to love you. Love comes from within, it lives inside you. This is the real LOVE OF YOURSELF.
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Give yourself room to design your solution, which will be very different from what others would have imagined for you, but which will suit you perfectly
My good friend, we are not perfect! The quest for physical perfection is the obsession of our time: to be beautiful, healthy, and eternally young. It is very difficult to live in this kind of society when you don’t like yourself.

Your body is your treasure, taking care of it makes you feel good. You must listen to your body, respect it and accept it whatever your age and personal situation. Try to combine your inner beauty with your outer beauty, which will allow you to create incredible fulfillment in your relationship with others. I reassure you, your imperfections, your failures in love are part of life.

Loving yourself allows you to face all the ups and downs of life without complaining. It is to accept oneself as one is and to improve oneself day after day. You can create clarity in your being by analyzing your strengths and weaknesses. Be sincere with yourself my dear, because to open your heart to yourself is to open it to genuine progress of your life & others. Be blessed.
Onyekachi M Ogbonnia

Genuine love starts from within you… Onyekachi M Ogbonnia